Being a gay male escort

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I really do like what I do. It was very weird and crazy at first but I have had a lot of fun, met tons of great people and made some decent money. I started doing it out of necessity and just ended up sticking with it.

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My women clients are all very similar. Not what most would call attractive. Usually ages from 30 to 45 with very few outside that age range. They are usually larger women and some of them have definitely been a bit slow. Not retarded or anything but just a little dimmer then the average person. Nearly all are inexperienced. There have been a few that fall outside all those traits but it really is a rare occurrence. But in the moment I find it pretty easy to fantasize about other women or experiences. Either by closing my eyes or just letting my eyes slide out of focus and start picturing a more attractive woman.

What works really well for me is thinking really hard about some of my favorite sexual encounters and my best orgasms.

Any condom should keep you in the game long enough. There are quite a lot of couples out there who are looking for something new to spice up their bedroom life. I honestly love when couples contact me. A lot of my clients are in totally sexless relationships and I always wonder if the fire could get hot again if only they talked about some new sexual experiences and acted on them. I work on my own.

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I just feel like there are more important things to do in the city then tracking down one male pro. As far as sketchy clients go I always read the messages beforehand carefully to weed out the weird sounding people. If the words someone is using give you a bad feeling then skip it. Again bad feeling in your gut then bail.

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I am a pretty big, strong guy as well and I always feel like I am capable of defending myself. I do consider myself straight and yes I do oral on men. That always makes me feel super uncomfortable. I do not. I get asked nearly every time though. Fun fact from my experience most gay men are catchers.

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I would say only 15 or 20 percent of the men ask me to be the bottom. The rest ask me to top them. I decline all of them of course. Good thing there are other ways to please the fellas. Yup I do oral and the women that want it as well. I generally do attract more men than women. From my personal experience, people that you'd least suspect pay for sex. Often, it's because they have a conflicted relationship with their sexual fantasies.

"One time, a client tied the condom in a knot so he could take my come home."

The more they repress their desires, the stronger they come out in bed. How do your sessions work? Is it awkward when it's time to pay? I always try to establish some sort of dialogue with the client. I pretend to believe everything they tell me, especially when they conjure up a fictional identity. I listen to them and make them feel special because they're paying to be the center of attention. Some clients tell me I'm better than their therapist.

How they choose to pay me usually reflects their character. Smug clients casually hand me money like they're paying at a toll booth, and the shy ones act like it's a present—which I hate because I worked hard for that money.

The more uninhibited refer to it as a fee, acknowledging that I'm a professional. The romantic ones put it in an envelope with a little message, while the old nostalgics pay by check. Then there are those who just leave the money on the table or sneak it into my pockets. What do you do if you don't find a client attractive at all? I don't take any sexual enhancement pills, so foreplay or my imagination can be really important to get me going.

But even when my client is a really hot guy, I can't fully enjoy it because they're paying me. It's not someone I met randomly; I can't let go as much as I would with people who aren't my clients. Have you ever agreed to have sex without a condom? People who sleep around are normally the ones who are most worried about getting an STD, so it's rare that you're asked to do that. I always have safe sex—it's not worth the risk. What are some of the weirdest requests you've received? Even though I've been doing this job for years, I still get shocked by certain people's sexual fantasies—mostly because they rarely have anything to do with the act directly.

Apart from that, there are always plenty of people who pay to be insulted, beaten and tortured. In your adverts, you say you can provide both top quality and low cost services. How does that work? I don't have a fixed fee — I accept the maximum amount a client is willing to pay. That's just how I choose to sell myself. At one point I just started calling myself the best on the market, so that clients would think of me the same way and actually help me become the best on the market.

go That's what marketing yourself is all about. My clients like me because I offer something they won't find anywhere else. It doesn't matter if someone else's ad lists a few extra centimetres height or dick length — a client wants quality. Is it hard to have a relationship when you work as an escort? Yes, it can be.

In my experience, people prefer to have a partner who cheats on them on the sly, than accept the idea that monogamy is an outdated social construct and that true loyalty lies in mutual honesty. I've made various attempts to start a relationship, but it has never been easy. Perhaps one day I will meet the right person. Many people eventually do, but maybe I'll be so busy with work that I won't realise it. What are your plans for after you're done being an escort?

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Since becoming an escort, I've also become a fully licensed lawyer. I don't practice law, but I was keen to sit the bar exam to remind myself and the people around me that I had other options. Whatever happens, being an escort will leave me financially secure for a while. Follow Vincenzo on Twitter. More VICE. Australia Today.


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